Ruck together. Talk together. Grow together.

This is a Valentine’s-themed couples ruck built around intentional conversation. You’ll complete a 10K ruck and scan nine QR codes along the way to unlock a short video (quick guidance for that segment) and prompts for discussion for the next kilometer.

As an alternative to scanning QR codes, you can click the buttons below to access the same video links.

Welcome Video

What an awesome way to spend time together! Let's get started with a few instructions and then get rucking!

Checkpoint #1

Two Simple Rules

After watching the short clip, take time to discuss:

- What does this look like in our life?
- What can we do better?

Watch the YouTube Clip

Checkpoint #2

Five Things

How quickly did you list your five things?

Watch Video

Checkpoint #3

How to Stay Married Discussion

Take turns reading the questions and discuss.

View PDF

Checkpoint #4

How to Build Trust in your Relationship

Want a relationship built on unbreakable trust? Dr. John Gottman reveals the one question every couple needs to answer: Will you be there for me?

Watch Video

Checkpoint #5

Key to Incredible Sex Discussion

Take turns reading and discussing the following questions on the PDF.

View the PDF

Checkpoint #6

What stands in our way of good communication?

Points to discuss:

  • What can I do better?
  • If I had a magic wand, and could change one thing about our communication I would change _________ .
Watch the Video

Checkpoint #7

U-Shaped Marriage Happiness Chart

- According to our length of marriage, where are we on the chart?
- When you married me, did you think marriage was going to be easy?
- Does the chart surprise you?
- Does the chart give you hope in our future?

View the Chart

Checkpoint #8

How to stay married for +82 years,

D.W. and Willie Williams have been married for 82 years! Hear what advice they have to give on marriage.

Watch Video

Checkpoint #9

Homework

A little discussion time after the ruck.

Watch Video

Congratulations!

You did it! And you did it together!